Have you ever felt like you are living a life that doesn’t feel like it’s yours? Perhaps you are doing everything you are “supposed” to be doing each day, but somewhere deep down, you know that it doesn’t feel exactly right? If that resonates, you are not alone. Many people get to a point in their lives where they begin to want more. More meaning, more peace, more connection to who they are.
Here are five clear indicators that you may be ready to get back in touch with who you really are.
You Feel Disconnected from Yourself
One of the biggest signs is feeling lost or unsure about who you really are. Think for a moment: “What do I really want?” or “Why am I doing this?”
If your days feel empty or you are simply going with the flow, it may be time to look within. Feeling disconnected is not a failure. It is just your inner self gently nudging you to notice what truly matters.
You are Tired of Pretending
Do you often smile on the outside while feeling something else inside? Do you say “yes” even when your heart wants to say “no”? That is a red flag.
When you are always hiding your real feelings or thoughts in order to please other people, it creates tension and unhappiness. In the long run, hiding your thoughts or feelings in this way negatively affects your life. You can live your life on your terms and stop pretending to be someone you are not.
You Crave Peace Over Perfection
At some point, chasing perfect results, appearances, or approval becomes exhausting. If you begin to worry less about what other people think and more about feeling relaxed, you are progressing.
Choosing peace over pressure means you are shifting focus from outside expectations to inner values. That is a huge step toward finding your true self.
You Want More Meaning in Life
Even though you have a job, a home, and a routine, you may still feel that something is lacking. That “something” is often a purpose.
Seeking a more profound purpose in your daily existence is an indication that you are prepared to re-establish a connection with your core values. Personal growth and profound transformation are often the outcomes of this motivation.
You are Willing to Explore and Learn
Finding your true self is not about having all the answers. The key is to be willing to ask more insightful questions.
If you are excited about something new, interested in growing, or are just ready to do something different, you are in a good place. Growth begins with the choice to explore who you are by consistently taking small steps.
So, if these five signs resonate deeply within you, then consider this your invitation to begin the most powerful journey of your life: the journey back to you.
Finding out who you really are is not about recreating yourself; it is about rediscovering who you have always been beneath the layers of routine, expectations, and doubt. It is about getting out of survival mode and into a life that is alive, purposeful, in alignment with your true desires and what your soul has asked you to do.
Joanna Krzastek, certified life purpose, happiness, and goal success coach in Toronto, Ontario, has walked this path—and now, she is here to guide you through yours. Her coaching is more than conversation; it is a transformative partnership built on empathy, strategy, and soul-deep support. Whether you are feeling stuck at a crossroads, overwhelmed by change, or simply yearning for more, Joanna can help you unlock the potential that has been quietly waiting within you.
Reach out today at J.krzastek@yahoo.com and let’s begin the beautiful unfolding.